In any relationship a solid foundation should be based on trust and support, it's essential that both people always respect one another's passions in life and be there to motivate one another and not hold them back from doing what they love.
Ive been around a lot of friends who have been hurt recently by their relationships...some struggling to keep them going, some coming out of long relationships, some starting new beginnings- I wish most of them would see their self worth- it amazes me to see how when someone falls in love they give up with it their confidence per say- and it gets shattered when they are broken up with or let go...thing is human mind is so complicated and instead of trying to understand and reason why someone left you should just let it go, seriously- just make the choice to say fuck it, its not worth it & MOVE ON- why waste all this time and energy now- ull regret it later... there ARE better things out there for you- everything happens for a reason and maybe being alone will allow you to discover new passions you would have never thought of.
Another thing is I see couples making so many sacrifices to be with one another- that equals disaster... bc what does that lead to? RESENTMENT- if you truly love someone you should always allow them to pursue their ambitions- dont keep them from doing what they love even if it means having them be far away- etc...if its meant to be have faith and be confident enough that it will work out... that way down the line u are not there holding things against one another arguing about who did what for who and who sacrificed this and that... imperfections are beautiful too- its incredible to see how one persons attributes can rub off on one another- so just be you and let ur partner be them. 3
“Don’t look to the approval of others for your mental stability”
~Karl Lagerfield
“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”
Jim Morrison
~Karl Lagerfield
“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”
Jim Morrison
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